Showing posts with label soaring hawk vintage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label soaring hawk vintage. Show all posts
5/05/2017
9/16/2016
There's a Harvest Moon tonight.
5 Harvest Moon Fast Facts
The Harvest Moon is one that falls closest to the Autumnal Equinox.
Some of our favorite veggies are now at their peak.
The bright light of the moon aids farmers in working a little later..."by the light", sing along...
In China ... they'll be devouring moon cakes as part of the Autumn celebrations!
The full Harvest Moon will rise at sunset!
Oh and dear sweet vintage lovers, I'm having a Harvest Moon sale all weekend.
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7/06/2016
It's July! Time for a BIG SALE!
After you finish lounging by the pool, swing by the shop to find a lovely piece of vintage decor or a fun old game for the beach house!
6/02/2016
Fly Dad Fly! Father's Day Sale at Soaring Hawk Vintage
Now through June 10th, 2016
SAVE 15% on any order $19.99+ with code "FLYDADFLY"!
* Most orders in the US include FREE SHIPPING *
4/01/2016
Use your Coupon Code! It's Moonlight Madness time at Soaring Hawk Vintage
Now through April 10th, 2016
SAVE 20% on any order $20+ with code "MOONGAZER"!
* Most orders in the US include FREE SHIPPING *
2/27/2016
It's My Birthday - Let's Take 10 Off Together
Celebrate my birthday with me this weekend!
SAVE 10% off of any item $10+ with code "BDAYTAKE10"
Valid through Monday, February 29th, 2016.
* Most orders within the US include FREE SHIPPING *
2/19/2016
Soaring Hawk Vintage Etsy Pop Up Sale ... Savings end 2/22.
SAVE 15% off of any item $19.99+ with code "POPUP216"!
* Most orders in the US include FREE SHIPPING *
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1/26/2016
Happy Chinese New Year from Soaring Hawk Vintage
Celebrate with the Hawk!
Now through Monday, February 8th, 2016 take $5 off any order of $24.99+ with code
"CNY2016"!
* Most orders in the US now include FREE SHIPPING *
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1/09/2016
Winter Sale at Soaring Hawk Vintage on Etsy!
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| Hibernate with Soaring Hawk Vintage this winter and save! |
12/02/2015
Now through 12/31/2015, save $5 on any order $29.99+ with code
"MERRY2015". As a bonus, all buyers will receive a special thank you coupon code to use on their next purchase.
Hurry, most Christmas items will sell out before the big day!
Most orders ship same day or within 1 business day.
View Christmas shipping deadlines here.
11/11/2015
Thoughts on Veterans Day at Soaring Hawk Vintage
Veterans, thank you.
I'm not doing a Veterans Day sale or promo this year, I must simply say thanks.
I've had the honor of hearing firsthand stories of Vietnam vets and a handful of WWII survivors that were nothing short of heart breaking ... you have been and are so brave.
Thank you.
I'm not doing a Veterans Day sale or promo this year, I must simply say thanks.
I've had the honor of hearing firsthand stories of Vietnam vets and a handful of WWII survivors that were nothing short of heart breaking ... you have been and are so brave.
Thank you.
10/31/2015
Soaring Hawk Vintage Halloween Sale on Etsy
Shop vintage, save $.
Use coupon code TREATME2015 in our Etsy shop and save $5 on any order of $25 or more!
Expires 11/2/2015...psst that means you can shop all Sunday!
Authentic vintage, rare books, decorative collectibles, ephemera, and more!
9/05/2015
Labor Day Sale at Soaring Hawk Vintage on Etsy!
You've labored, now save while you kick up your heels for some RRS...that's Rest, Relaxation, and Shopping.
Holiday weekend SALE!
A woman owned, small business, nestled in the whispering pines of central North Carolina. When you #ShopSmall we all win!
P.S. ... Yes, I bargain, send your BEST offer.
Holiday weekend SALE!
- Use #couponcode LABORDAY2015.
- Valid now through 9/7/2015.
- Save $10 on orders of $49.99 or greater at checkout!
A woman owned, small business, nestled in the whispering pines of central North Carolina. When you #ShopSmall we all win!
P.S. ... Yes, I bargain, send your BEST offer.
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6/10/2015
Is it Ebay Live or an Estate Sale?
If you're a fashion and vintage nerd like me, GO.
Sunday morning I decided to pursue my fave pastime though, squeezing in a few estate sales before slumber party pick up time. One sale in particular had been drawing in my curiosity all weekend...a downsizing sale ... it was calling my name. It was the only featured sale from the Estatesales.org email that didn't have any photos, but it did have a laundry list of items. Still not one pic, odd. Hmm #1 ... in the sale description they noted that they were moving into a home half the size of their current one and no estate sale company was hosting it. Hmmm #2, I figured it had to be worth a stop. Now if you aren't in the know, Sundays are typically the final day of any tag sale and they're one of the best times to shop one, ESPECIALLY if you're a true bargain hunter or vintage dealer. Most items are half the cost of what they were on day one or two and if the seller hasn't had great sales, they're very receptive to negotiating prices to simply get the stuff OUT of their home. Half price on estate sale pricing is one of the best things on Earth! Two other bonuses: if it's an overloaded home (note: don't think hoarders, think a lifetime of generally well kept possessions), they'll still have LOTS and LOTS of stuff left on the final day and a bunch of items may make their debut on the last day because the homeowner didn't have the time or energy to get to them at the beginning. On the downside, sometimes Sundays can be a complete and total bust. If sales have gone well, there may not be enough left over to justify selling anything on Sunday and sellers will call it off early. If you thought that hot item would be there on day 2 or 3... sorry, no, it's probably not going to happen. And, yes, often the sellers are really tired and they aren't going to be so hap hap happy to deal with more customers or answer questions.
So, by now you're wondering, was this mystery sale a win or bust? Unfortunately, this sale gets a big fat "FAIL" rating in my book. There were lots and lots of items left in the home (that's a bad sign on day 3) and only a small area of the home was actually open for shopping. I have to say, that the ad felt a bit misleading once I stepped foot inside and found that only 3 rooms were open for the sale. Then I started to notice something rather odd around the house... papers - papers everywhere.. lots of printed out papers under everything...nearly every item had a color printout from eBay laying underneath or taped to each item for sale. What the? Did I just stumble into the Twilight Zone of estate sales? Apparently I fell into someone's idea of an estate sale vs. what one actually is. Somewhere, somehow, the homeowner here got the notion that they needed to justify prices by providing an eBay listing printout and placing it on or under every item. I guess they just couldn't stop with adding a pricing sticker on each item. Seller guilt? This was a first for me... I've seen thrift stores practice this occasionally to support a markup from the normal flat pricing, but never have I been to a tag sale where it was done across the board. If I can be blunt, there's no faster way to annoy your buyers (and I mean anger them) than by providing printouts from eBay listings or sales, with said items. Buyers will assume from the get go that you must be an irrational person and not even bother to try and negotiate. After all, you went to all that trouble to research and printout over 100 listing pages, but apparently never felt the need to go ahead and actually sell any of the items on eBay or any other online marketplace. Also, there are a LOT of insider ins and outs to eBay and other marketplaces. You may have chosen a listing of a different era or condition than your item, you may have printed out an active listing with pricing that is way off from the market value, or say a Buy It Now listing that is open to lower offers, or you've printed out a completed, but unsold listing. Please don't do this! Buyers really .... REALLY don't like it. You're item will likely never sell. All in all, I think this seller may have spent more on ink toner than they made in profit at their sale. You live, you learn.
Do's and Don'ts
- You can have a successful sale or you can have a fail sale. Don't hold your own estate sale if you've never had one before. If you do, better to call it a yard sale and expect yard sale prices.
- Hire a professional liquidator who knows the market, and even more so, the local market and will price your items attractively to sell.
- Do not base all of your pricing off of eBay listings.
- Do not printout eBay listing pages and tape them to your items.
- Do not tape anything to valuable items...you may well ruin or substantially downgrade the value by doing so.
- Do, place a string tag on items of value that will not damage the item.
- Don't make false claims about what is or isn't available in your ad.
- Provide a real assessment of what you're selling and good photos of key items.
- Don't run an estate sale ad without photos! Descriptions are good, but a picture is worth a thousand words. What may not mean something to you may mean something to a collector.
- Do adequate homework via multiple websites, the library, or better yet use an appraiser to provide sound pricing that takes condition and features into account on any item of value.
- Don't forget...you could be missing out on a lot of revenue by skipping use of an estate sale service provider... you may price a high value item way too low.
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5/05/2015
Avoid Side Eye this Mother's Day, Vintage is Timeless
Nearly every mother likes to receive flowers, gifts, or a day off of cooking for Mother's Day ... but has your "go-to" routine of a free lunch and a greeting card gotten a little stale? For seasoned moms... gestures like these, while appreciated, are likely be considered as just that... gestures. Now who wants a gesture for Mother's Day? Okay... you ... over there in the far corner... quit waving your arms, lol.No worries, the Soaring Hawk is here to help save Mother's Day 2015 with our Vintage is Timeless Gift Guide.
Why not go vintage and skip the Hallmark store for once? A little card and a little spa certificate is always nice, but that certificate has an expiration date and I'd bet that poor mom will probably a wait several weeks to get in for an appointment. Boo Hiss. Oh and then there are just some mom's who don't care for the whole spa thing... your certificate may sit in a drawer for 6 months or even year before it gets used, if at all. It happens! It even happened to me once! Yikes. You might as well be making a cash donation to the spa of your choice. The reality? Some moms are literally too busy to find the time to use gift certificates... especially moms of young children. Does your Hallmark card really hold that much meaning if that same style of card has been mass produced and gifted to 1 million moms this holiday? I think not. It is the thought that counts... so lets take your well meaning and sincere thought to a whole new level.
Consider a beautiful gift of old instead. There's simply more meaning involved when you go with vintage. Gifting a rare piece of jewelry or a limited edition piece of porcelain tells Mom that you applied a little thinking ... you really took the time to consider what she loves. If it stands the test of time, that means love. From the mom point of view, knowing that she has a rare item on hand, one that perhaps no one else owns or is only one of a few remaining in the world... well... that's special. That's thoughtful. That will not get you side eye... it may however render happy tears....so have some emergency tissue on hand and ready. Disclaimer.. this type of gift giving also applies to birthdays, graduations, father's day, weddings, and anniversaries.
It's not too late to right the ship. Fly into Soaring Hawk Vintage now, browse around your desired section to see what would be a great fit for mom. If you live in the US, select Priority Mail shipping, I can get your gift there by Sunday...simply order no later than Wednesday, May 6th, before 5PM EST. I accept, PayPal, Visa, MasterCard, Etsy Gift Cards, and more..and you don't have to have a PayPal account to use PayPal.
10 Thoughtful Mother's Day Gift Ideas
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4/14/2015
Etsy Treasury Fan? ME TOO!
There's nothing like a great collection right? Now, I don't brag on myself much, but I DO pride myself on being a fabulous curator, call me a nerd if you must, but it's a complete blast putting together unique collections of goods or art from my point of view. Along these same lines...putting together an awesome Etsy Treasury allows Etsy buyers and sellers with an opportunity to create their own little showcase for the world to see. From my Put Me In Coach showcase to the 1970's Time Capsule to the strange Creepy Easter Bunny set (for all the goth kids), I love love and love putting together a good treasury.
If you're as BIG a fan of Etsy Treasuries as I am ... you know ... the GOOD ones ... give The Etsy Treasury Hunter a visit ... there's a daily theme running with the best treasuries out there. Be sure to visit my latest creation Vintage Game Night....because it's always entertaining to watch Aunt Martha come UNGLUED if she thinks someone is cheating at gin.
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4/09/2015
Estate Sale Fables #1 - The Oregon Mouse
So begins a new blog series Estate Sale Fables, cautionary tales from property liquidations, buy-outs, and estate sales. I'm jumping ahead though...I need to tell you what prompted me to start this series. Last week, a good friend of mine suddenly went from normal everyday living to being found unconscious and then in the ICU, in the course of a 24-hour period! In the meantime I got a strong reminder of how quickly life really can happen. You hear about these types of things all the time and think 'how awful for ...'. And if your mom is as tuned into the local community as my mom is, she calls to tell you about the latest news, every week ha ha ha. We all say 'life changes so fast' at some point or another...then wham...someone in your inner circle actually has a life altering health crisis launching a ripple effect that causes you to make some different decisions, and likely reevaluate your own life. This particular incident definitely caused me to do some deep thinking, as it is the first time one of my close friends has experienced a critical health issue.
It also prompted me to look at the situation from a professional perspective. The majority of my clients are in no way prepared for the "after" portion of what to do with all of their friend or family member's belongings once the pinnacle of the critical event has passed. Even when my clients have a heads up about major changes and a timetable ... what to do with all of the "stuff" tends to be the 30th item on their to-do list. Now, I'm going to sidestep the emotional bits in this series and leave that to the professionals: the clergy, counselors, your dog, or your cat etc., and stick to what I know, the tangibles, aka all of that stuff. As a major proponent of client confidentiality, I will not be sharing any personal details, identifying information, or secrets about anyone's "stuff", emotional or otherwise. Some details have been revised to protect privacy. What I will be sharing are some cautionary tales from my work, true stories about what led clients to seek out my services, and general client experiences that I hope will be of benefit to you. Sometimes we're still in a state of shock post-crisis and we don't take time to consider value - tangible or sentimental. I hope to help you see a little further down the line here in case you find yourself in a similar situation. We all have stuff...everyday stuff, priceless treasures, and even valuables. You need to keep a few pointers in the forefront of your mind if you're the one in charge of going through "the stuff". As a professional, I have seen and heard some things (you can add southern twang and read that as 'thangs' if you like). Stories that would make your jaw drop. So, let's go.
So... what happened? Well, there were a few respondents that she screened by phone who pulled a no-show ... after she'd made a mad dash after work in crazy traffic on more than a few occasions, that was annoying. Then there was the man that came and stayed for quite a while, talking to her about anything and everything for a little over 2 hours--after all that talking, he only bought a few small kitchen appliances for $25 or so. She appreciated his sparkling conversation, but had a lot to do.
How valuable is your time? She considers her time to be pretty valuable, so this was one or many days of frustration.
Then came a customer that really scared her. A man called and said he was interested in buying her washer and dryer set, he seemed like a nice person, asked a LOT of questions...so they scheduled a time. Later on he arrived, an hour late in fact (red flag #1 - responsible buyers tend to show up on time or even early.... if they're running late, they'll usually call). He had another guy in tow, "to help". Hmmm... she hadn't planned on two people being there with her --> after work, on a weekday, alone in the house. Let me set the scene here... the house sat pretty far back from a subdivision side-street, on a heavily wooded lot, not near a main road, and several hundred feet away from neighboring houses. Okay... back to the story. She was a little uneasy about this customer, you know the one, that feeling you kind of get when something just isn't quite right (red flag #2 - if something feels off... it probably is... listen to your gut feeling). He didn't bring a dolly cart to move the set like he'd told her he'd be bringing to move large appliances. After a quick look, he decided he didn't want the set..."they looked really old" (red flag #3 - in actuality, they were less than a year old...that should have been the end of their visit). She told them they were welcome to look at the living room furniture, kitchen appliances, and dining room set instead, but to please stay out of the back bedrooms...(she closed those doors off because she hadn't yet sorted in there and didn't want anyone in the rooms). There was also some fine jewelry in those rooms. She left the two men alone in the kitchen for a few minutes while she pulled some stuff out of the garage...ran a few bags down to the garbage, etc. When she came back to the kitchen, they weren't around! They'd been in the back bedrooms for over 20 minutes, alone...the very rooms she'd asked them to stay out of in the first place! Okay.... enough with the red flags...this situation is all kinds of wrong, oh but it gets even stranger. She politely asked them to leave those rooms and because she was going to have to leave soon. They took their time, but left the rooms. Then decided they'd leave. She stated there was a really awkward moment at this point, in that moment she feared they might try and overpower or attack her. Thankfully, they started to head out, but decided they'd look in the garage on the way. She was really nervous since it was starting to get late and a little dark. They started to pick through some garage shelves, asking if this or that was for sale.... no good... she told them she really had to go soon and that she hadn't had a chance to really sort through those things yet. They asked again on the same items they'd asked about a few minutes prior... that she'd already said no to. Game over... Did they buy anything? No, not a thing. However, in the time they were alone in the bedrooms, she later discovered that they'd stolen quite a bit of jewelry from the home. She realized after the fact that phone screens weren't the ideal way to go in selling items and that having buyers in the home alone...very dangerous. These two didn't harm her, but they scared her to death, and stole jewelry that meant a lot to her...things that cannot be replaced. In hindsight she thinks that they were probably weighing weather or not to go for an assault and robbery or just the robbery during that long awkward moment. She no longer felt safe in the home after that night, constantly worrying whether or not they'd be back to "shop" again or even break-in while she was at work... in talking to the police, she realized that she'd unintentionally shared her working hours with the burglars during their initial phone call. There were a lot of things I discussed with her after hearing her story... things I advised her to do differently if ever placed in a similar situation. First and foremost, valuables (sentimental and expensive) items were removed from the home that day and taken to a safe location, out of sight of any would be watchers or future thieves. Arrangements were made to have the local authorities do some courtesy drive-by of the home to ensure things were intact when she couldn't be around. Any future sorting was done with friends and/or neighbors present... no more solo nights.
Sometimes our good intentions happen to go off course and having the oversight of a professional in the industry is worth it's weight in gold not only for protecting value, but health and safety. A detailed family history book was pulled from the bookshelf that she thought only contained novels and old cookbooks, personal paperwork with social security data was found in some old folders that she had thought about taking to a charity store... there are just many things that can be overlooked when you aren't looking for them. That's it for now... please keep safety at the forefront of your mind if you are handling a similar scenario. I strongly suggest you consult a professional... in fact, interview more than a few in advance of making any decisions. Meet in a public place. Discuss plans with a trusted friend or family members.
More to come.
It also prompted me to look at the situation from a professional perspective. The majority of my clients are in no way prepared for the "after" portion of what to do with all of their friend or family member's belongings once the pinnacle of the critical event has passed. Even when my clients have a heads up about major changes and a timetable ... what to do with all of the "stuff" tends to be the 30th item on their to-do list. Now, I'm going to sidestep the emotional bits in this series and leave that to the professionals: the clergy, counselors, your dog, or your cat etc., and stick to what I know, the tangibles, aka all of that stuff. As a major proponent of client confidentiality, I will not be sharing any personal details, identifying information, or secrets about anyone's "stuff", emotional or otherwise. Some details have been revised to protect privacy. What I will be sharing are some cautionary tales from my work, true stories about what led clients to seek out my services, and general client experiences that I hope will be of benefit to you. Sometimes we're still in a state of shock post-crisis and we don't take time to consider value - tangible or sentimental. I hope to help you see a little further down the line here in case you find yourself in a similar situation. We all have stuff...everyday stuff, priceless treasures, and even valuables. You need to keep a few pointers in the forefront of your mind if you're the one in charge of going through "the stuff". As a professional, I have seen and heard some things (you can add southern twang and read that as 'thangs' if you like). Stories that would make your jaw drop. So, let's go.
What do you do when you suddenly inherit a home and ALL of its belongings? Let's say 20, 40, or even 50 years of living? Oh, and don't forget about all of the items in the garage, attic, the basement, and backyard shed. As Americans ... oh my we have a LOT of stuff, especially Boomers who have lived in the same home for the bigger part of their lives. How would you begin to handle a situation like this the decision making fell upon you? What if you had to divide the decision making process with siblings and spouses? How many nights and weekends do you have free to start the sorting process?
Does the mere mention of this strike a little panic in the pit of your stomach? Don't worry... I'm here to help.
The Fable of the Oregon Mouse
"The Oregon Mouse" began looking for some professional help in selling personal property after attempting to do so on her own had become "entirely overwhelming and dangerous", (we'll get to that part in a minute). The facts of her story aren't all that uncommon...it's the kind of scenario that plays out all across America on a daily basis. She'd been living full time in the beautiful Pacific Northwest for many years, but decided to relocate to the Carolinas in order to live closer to her aging parent. There had been a few accidental falls and health issues here, so living on the opposite coast and a 4 hour flight away was no longer realistic. After relocating, things were a little hectic at first, but she managed to get a handle on the commute, work, and elder care. Then life happened in a big way. Her parent had not one, but two serious falls while working in the yard over a 2 month period. The 2nd fall resulted in serious health complications and the unfortunate realization that her parent would no longer be able to live independently. Suddenly The Oregon Mouse had many major decisions to make related to convalescent care, finances, legalities, etc...it was an already stressful situation, then came the reality, "what am I going to do with all this stuff". She also inherited 2 small dogs to care for in the meantime too. So there it was, a 1,500 square foot home, garage, and storage shed packed full of belongings that needed to be cleared out in less than 45 days, per the leasing co. She began spending every night after work and all of her weekends sorting through what to keep, trash, donate, and to determine what keepsakes should be saved. Some of the sorting process was emotional and took a lot more time than she had anticipated or allotted on some days. Some of the sorting was physically demanding work. Closet space was limited at the nursing home and there was little available storage in her personal apartment, so she started to explore options on where and how to sell certain items herself, asking co-workers for advice. The overwhelming answer she got from her younger and hip team members: just use Craigslist! Everyone told her it was the easiest way to sell furniture quickly. So, The Oregon Mouse placed a sale ad on Craigslist, including a few general room and garage photos, and her cell # so she could kind of screen people and make appointments for them to come by. She figured it would be fine to have them simply call or email, set up a time to look at furniture and books, etc., after work or on Saturdays, when the neighbors should be around. Now, I have no horror tale of woe about Craigslist killers to relay here, the major news will always take care of that. I'm actually a big fan of using Craigslist to sell certain kinds of items, but there are some not so smart ways to use the site and some safer ways to go about selling things via Craigs. Is anything 100% safe? No, but taking certain measures or using a different avenue like an experienced estate sale company will at least reduce the risk of danger significantly. So... what happened? Well, there were a few respondents that she screened by phone who pulled a no-show ... after she'd made a mad dash after work in crazy traffic on more than a few occasions, that was annoying. Then there was the man that came and stayed for quite a while, talking to her about anything and everything for a little over 2 hours--after all that talking, he only bought a few small kitchen appliances for $25 or so. She appreciated his sparkling conversation, but had a lot to do.
How valuable is your time? She considers her time to be pretty valuable, so this was one or many days of frustration.
Then came a customer that really scared her. A man called and said he was interested in buying her washer and dryer set, he seemed like a nice person, asked a LOT of questions...so they scheduled a time. Later on he arrived, an hour late in fact (red flag #1 - responsible buyers tend to show up on time or even early.... if they're running late, they'll usually call). He had another guy in tow, "to help". Hmmm... she hadn't planned on two people being there with her --> after work, on a weekday, alone in the house. Let me set the scene here... the house sat pretty far back from a subdivision side-street, on a heavily wooded lot, not near a main road, and several hundred feet away from neighboring houses. Okay... back to the story. She was a little uneasy about this customer, you know the one, that feeling you kind of get when something just isn't quite right (red flag #2 - if something feels off... it probably is... listen to your gut feeling). He didn't bring a dolly cart to move the set like he'd told her he'd be bringing to move large appliances. After a quick look, he decided he didn't want the set..."they looked really old" (red flag #3 - in actuality, they were less than a year old...that should have been the end of their visit). She told them they were welcome to look at the living room furniture, kitchen appliances, and dining room set instead, but to please stay out of the back bedrooms...(she closed those doors off because she hadn't yet sorted in there and didn't want anyone in the rooms). There was also some fine jewelry in those rooms. She left the two men alone in the kitchen for a few minutes while she pulled some stuff out of the garage...ran a few bags down to the garbage, etc. When she came back to the kitchen, they weren't around! They'd been in the back bedrooms for over 20 minutes, alone...the very rooms she'd asked them to stay out of in the first place! Okay.... enough with the red flags...this situation is all kinds of wrong, oh but it gets even stranger. She politely asked them to leave those rooms and because she was going to have to leave soon. They took their time, but left the rooms. Then decided they'd leave. She stated there was a really awkward moment at this point, in that moment she feared they might try and overpower or attack her. Thankfully, they started to head out, but decided they'd look in the garage on the way. She was really nervous since it was starting to get late and a little dark. They started to pick through some garage shelves, asking if this or that was for sale.... no good... she told them she really had to go soon and that she hadn't had a chance to really sort through those things yet. They asked again on the same items they'd asked about a few minutes prior... that she'd already said no to. Game over... Did they buy anything? No, not a thing. However, in the time they were alone in the bedrooms, she later discovered that they'd stolen quite a bit of jewelry from the home. She realized after the fact that phone screens weren't the ideal way to go in selling items and that having buyers in the home alone...very dangerous. These two didn't harm her, but they scared her to death, and stole jewelry that meant a lot to her...things that cannot be replaced. In hindsight she thinks that they were probably weighing weather or not to go for an assault and robbery or just the robbery during that long awkward moment. She no longer felt safe in the home after that night, constantly worrying whether or not they'd be back to "shop" again or even break-in while she was at work... in talking to the police, she realized that she'd unintentionally shared her working hours with the burglars during their initial phone call. There were a lot of things I discussed with her after hearing her story... things I advised her to do differently if ever placed in a similar situation. First and foremost, valuables (sentimental and expensive) items were removed from the home that day and taken to a safe location, out of sight of any would be watchers or future thieves. Arrangements were made to have the local authorities do some courtesy drive-by of the home to ensure things were intact when she couldn't be around. Any future sorting was done with friends and/or neighbors present... no more solo nights.
Sometimes our good intentions happen to go off course and having the oversight of a professional in the industry is worth it's weight in gold not only for protecting value, but health and safety. A detailed family history book was pulled from the bookshelf that she thought only contained novels and old cookbooks, personal paperwork with social security data was found in some old folders that she had thought about taking to a charity store... there are just many things that can be overlooked when you aren't looking for them. That's it for now... please keep safety at the forefront of your mind if you are handling a similar scenario. I strongly suggest you consult a professional... in fact, interview more than a few in advance of making any decisions. Meet in a public place. Discuss plans with a trusted friend or family members.
More to come.
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